Fixed!! the problem was at the connector under the air box,had a bit of fun getting access but once at that connector wiggling it about was bringing the high beams on, so sprayed with contact cleaner then ACF50, bent the tangs in the connector slightly for better connection,all working again 100%. reconnected Bigpies headlight relay kit as well.
also separated every connector I could and sprayed with contact cleaner/ACF50
hopefully that will keep things working now, thank for the help chaps.