5ml isn't going to make any difference.
I personally use silkolene 10w fork oil, but (one)fortunately, all manufacturers 10w is different. If you're a light rider, and/or you prefer a plush fork action, and aren't worried about brake dive, go for a lighter oil. If you're heavier, prefer a 'firmer' feel, and throw the bike around in twisties/heavy braking, go for a heavier oil.
You can also change how the fork behaves by changing how much oil you put in there - I won't go too in depth, but basically, the more fork oil (ie, the smaller the air gap) in each leg, the more the fork will resist bottoming (but too much, and you could lose travel, making the fork harsh, and maybe even blow seals!).
A good starting point is ~150mm air gap (with the fork compressed, springs out). This should be doable with one 1l tub of oil.
If you want it perfect, you've got a long road of experimenting to get it just right!