mrp, the connector in the left hand fairing is easily found. Turn the bars to the right and look down the left side, you will see it about the height of the bottom fork clamp trapped by a clip to the plastic. It's fairly large.
I use the ACF50 grease for the connectors and the liquid (use a spray gun & compressor if you can) on the rest of the bike. The liquid goes a long way and a misting via a spray gun is sufficient. IMHO.
Not on brakes or tyres!!!!